New Survey Reveals Sixty-Two Percent of Mothers Need Permission to Sleep

A survey of 1,000 U.S. mothers ages 25 to 45 found that guilt and perceived expectations may prevent many from prioritizing sleep. Sixty-two percent said they need someone else’s formal permission to focus on their sleep without guilt, while 83% typically wake feeling unrested and 48% get fewer than seven hours a night. The findings also suggest mothers often postpone improving their bedrooms and may be more interested in a dedicated sleep day than a spa day. Researchers frame this tension as a “sleep permission gap,” potentially reinforced by the psychological tendency to view rest as something that must be earned after caregiving and other responsibilities.
The survey was commissioned by Naturepedic and conducted in partnership with Wakefield Research, focusing on mothers’ sleep habits, feelings of guilt and bedroom environments.
The article defines the “sleep permission gap” as the difference between mothers’ recognition that they need and deserve rest and their feeling that they are entitled to take it without guilt or someone else’s approval.
The article emphasizes that the permission gap is not exclusive to mothers, linking it to the broader behavioral-science concept of moral licensing—the idea that people may feel entitled to indulge after doing something they view as good.
The findings suggest that the central issue is not whether mothers understand the value of sleep, but whether they feel able to act on that understanding: the article says most mothers know, in principle, that they deserve rest, yet something still prevents them from taking it.
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