Kids Misbehavior Fee
California Restaurant Introduces Fee for Misbehaving Children, Citing Disruptive Behavior
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A Bay Area restaurant is charging parents extra if their kids act up at the table. You You Xue, 28, owner of Chez Xue in California, went viral after posting his new policy on X: children must stay seated, stay quiet, and respect other diners — or their parents will pay a fee, according to NBC San Diego.
The post exploded online, drawing strong reactions from both sides. But Xue says his in-person customers have been largely supportive. He told NBC New York the policy is meant to start a bigger conversation about parenting in public spaces. 'We are not a playground,' the policy reads.
What the Policy Actually Says and Does
Xue's policy lays out clear rules for families dining at Chez Xue. Children must remain seated at all times. They must be respectful of other guests and the dining environment. If kids break those rules and parents ignore them, a surcharge kicks in, according to NBC Boston.
Xue also owns a second restaurant called wonderful, which holds a Michelin recognition. He is not a first-time operator making noise for attention. He built the policy out of real frustration, NBC Chicago reported. The fee is meant to hold parents accountable when they tune out their children's disruptive behavior.
Why Xue Says Parents Are the Real Problem
Xue is clear about who he blames. It is not the kids — it is the parents. He told NBC Washington that parents who consistently ignore their children's behavior are the primary reason he created this policy. In his view, children act out because adults let them.
He is not trying to ban children from his restaurant. He is asking parents to stay engaged. The policy targets inaction — the moment a parent looks away while a child runs between tables or shouts across the room, disrupting everyone else's meal, NBC Philadelphia reported.
Viral Backlash Online, Calm Support In the Dining Room
The post spread fast on X and drew fierce debate. Some called the policy unfair to parents of young children. Others said it was long overdue. The internet reaction was loud and divided, according to NBC Miami.
But Xue says the online fury does not reflect what he sees at the restaurant. His actual customers have responded positively. People who dine at Chez Xue seem to agree that a quiet, respectful meal is worth protecting, NBC Dallas-Fort Worth reported.
Xue Hopes the Policy Sparks a Bigger Conversation
Xue told NBC Los Angeles he wants this moment to go beyond his restaurant. He hopes the viral attention will push people to talk about how children behave in shared public spaces — and what role parents play in setting that standard.
He is not backing down. Whether the fee becomes a regular tool or simply a warning, Xue believes the dialogue it has started is valuable. 'We are not a playground,' he wrote — and for now, the internet cannot stop talking about it, according to NBC Connecticut.
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